long talk into the night with @_superkate_ about life, the universe relationships and…everything. i managed to summarize my picture of the ideal partner into THIS:
someone who fundamentally, honestly sees and appreciates the strange, bent-human-unique Thing That You Are, AND
-can enjoy Being With It
-can enjoy Watching It from a distance
-can still enjoy life fully being Apart From It
A long time ago - I asked my partner to watch me grow. He did and still is. It’s fun.